we don't have time for perfect

So many of us believe in perfection, which ruins everything else, because the perfect is not only the enemy of the good;

It’s also the enemy of the realistic, the possible and the fun

 -         Rebecca Solnit –


Progress is more important than perfection

-         Simon Sinek –


Stop waiting for the perfect day or the perfect moment..
Take this day, this moment and lead it to perfection.

-         Dr. Steve Maraboli --


On 11/11 Bachelor’s Day in China, you might be surprised by the large amount of single ones who have been titled by a particular name: “Leftover women and leftover men.”

I really don’t think I am impressed by the name, cheap oakleys, how rude and stressful for the people who are unmarried!!!

Why so many people  remain singles, because they are looking for a perfect wife and a perfect husband with extremely high standard.

You might be told by your family or even relatives and friends:

Now, listen, you can’t find him as your boyfriend as he has no apartment for the marriage, his parents are poor, he doesn’t have a proper job, his salary is so low.

Go away, he is not your dreamed prince.

From a boy’s point of view: she’s not that pretty and attractive, her skin is so dark which looks like come from countryside.

She’s not that feminine, she’s a bit overweight, she had too much previous experience with guys, not a traditional good one.

No, she’s not a proper one for you.


Why don’t you be with someone who is not that perfect, but is willing to give you the perfect love.

A person by adding up with the highest points for your standard doesn’t mean the one who fits you the most.

He might be super rich, but he could be a workaholic, who only cares about work rather than you.
All you need is someone who can share your feeling and understand you very much.

In this case, he’s not the one for you although you have been waiting for ages for a perfect rich man's coming.

Just find someone who suits you the most, who gives you care, who can talk with and meet the needs of each other.

You are growing together, if it doesn’t work one day, it’s time say good-bye;

If you two have a strong feeling for getting married, why not make it happen.

It also applies in a workplace.

Each graduate student is expecting work in a fortune global 500 company with high salary and nice work environment.

In China, it is a kind of relation-oriented country.

Parents will be so concerned about  their children’s career by using all the efforts and money for finding relatives, colleagues, friends, even friends’ friends.

Whatever kind of relation, as long as their children can get a perfect job.

In some way, a good job guarantees a stable and comfortable life.

On the other hand, the children will miss the chance of experiencing life- being more independent -how try hard to find a job by themselves.

Someone even blame their parents for not being rich enough or with high social status who can help them out.

I am more fascinated by the stories of some of my friends who have tried their best by sending 500 job application letters and got a not that perfect job to start with.

After a few years struggling and keep moving on by work really hard.

Now, one is a manager of a big four bank, the other is working in big 4 accounting firm, and one has eventually realized dream to be a medical doctor etc.

They are amazing as they have stories to tell, they are not looking for perfection, but gradually they're becoming excellent.

Please do not complain and wait, just do whatever to start with.

You are experiencing life when it’s up and down, and you will become an interesting and special person for having so many stories to tell because you have life experience and know how to conquer difficulties.

The same as speaking and written English, if you have never tried to write down English sentences on a regular basis or have courage to speak out English which are full of grammar mistakes or sentences disorder, cheap jerseys, then how could  it be possible for your English reach certain level in the end?

Because you are looking for perfection, you are comparing with someone who is better than you, you think they might laugh at your mistakes.

Then you can never get started.

Actually, no one will even have time care about what you are doing.

I know my English writing is full of mistakes compared with native speakers, but I am still keep going, as I hope it will getting better one day.

Please do not wait for perfection, just do it and it will become perfect one day.

educated trickster make the world horriable

I always received a lot of kind of trick through my company email. such as Inheritance transfer,cheap fake oakleys, donation or share a huge amount bonus.this morning i received a new kind of trick.the title is "Hi Lovely",blow is the details.i think this kind of trick is wow ,my god! educated trickster make the world horriable.i can received  junk mail almost every day.Here I do not want to discuss the issue of information security, because there has been problems that has not been a good solution.

stuck in a rut is common case of the person above 30 whose sit in office do the same thing day by day.it's like join the line of old man.coz we adapt to evironment and think we are too old to take up a new hobby or learn more.stuck in a rut is more horriable than trick.

overseas  some people sail to world after retirement and started bodybuilding above 70 years old.

the age is no reason to stop take up new hobby and improve . cheap snapback hats, the best anti aging pill is enthusiam and young heart.

from now on.don't think your age is a ban to learn more and take up new hobby.

new term

After the college entrance examination and near three months' holiday, many colleges are waiting for their new students. At the same time many students will leave their hometown with excitement and fear to other cities they are unfamiliar with
When i reached my college last summer, i almost had no knowledge of it.I can not even find where my dormitory is. To find it, wholesale jerseys, i had to ask lots of upperclassmen,even though i still got lost because i couldn't figure out the right direction. However, a zealous schoolfellow took me out of the confusing labyrinth.How embarrassing it is.This year i'm willing to try my best to help new students.

Being slim doesn't mean being happy

Very often, we take it for granted that ideal weight, height, shape and size mean beauty. When we turn on the TV or reading fashion magazines, cheap nfl jerseys, we can see good body images of those superstars and models. We are bombarded with the idea that to be happy and successful we must be slim. Living in this environment, more and more people, especially girls, go for slim bodies. So, you will not be strange that so many people are going on a diet. I have seen many of my classmates skipping meals or taking diet pills in order to lose weight. But finally, the majority of them failed at the cost of health and felt unhappy.
Does being slim that important？In some degree, the answer is 'yes'. Those who are in good shape may feel more confident. So that they will be happy too. However, cheap hats, they pay too much attention to other people's views on them. They forget that what account is how they view themselves. Your confidence and happiness come from yourself.
Just be yourself!
You are the one who can judge if you are happy or no

Looking back of that terrorist attack

23rd December last year for the French civil was a bloody Friday. The Paris terrorist attack contributed to a number of people and families hurt. I am very sympathetic to the unfortunate victims as well as their relatives. At the same time,cheap oakleys, I will strongly condemn the terrorists' bad behaviors.
With the trend of modern technology and international situation, the wars are not only limited to the large scale of the battle field and the number of aspects. Nowadays, the world order varies from minute to minute. Multifarious wars are still happening at any corner of the world, there are still millions of people who have been displaced, and there are still a number of families that are fragmented. Whether it is self-defense or military strikes out of revenge,cheap jerseys, civil are always victims. When the war can stop?
When are we on the threshold of peaceful time?
I really hope there will be less war and more peace in our dear world.

The Life

 So many times, I cannot help asking myself about this question why we come into being, in other words, why we were born in this world? In our foreign friends’ point of view, we came into world to rescue ourselves from our all kinds of original sin in order to rest peacefully in the heaven. In our culture,wholesale jerseys, I guess, we come into this world to fulfill our final tasks by overcoming too many unknown difficulties.
 
Too many times we may feel that life is meaningless, for we spend our most of time in eating, sleeping and recreation. We can only use so less time that to finish our goals, such as to be a famous person, to possess lots of money, to fulfill our certain dreams, or to lead a well life, etc. And sometimes we feel that the Fate treats us unfair, because no matter how hard we work, we still in the very same routine, we cannot escape from it. Life really seems a trouble water; Sometimes, when we reach our goals easily, we may feel totally lost, for we don’t know what we should do next, we just idling our times in traveling, relaxing, leading an luxurious way of living, and ready to wait for the final date that we leave this world.

For me, life is a way of adventure. We don’t know what kind of life will wait for us. All we can do is to try our best to make each day meaningful. Maybe we live in a safe and sound way, maybe we experienced a lot,cheap fake oakleys, maybe we feel lost in the river of the life, maybe we wanna to start a new kind of life, anyway, we just like a sponge try our best to absorb all kinds of things that may make us stronger in order to face unknown. In the process of dealing with the future, we regard life as a both long and short journey, for we don’t know at wich station we should get on ,and get off at which station. We pay our attention to the journey itself, and neglect all kinds views of the journey. Till some unexpected things happened that we found things which already existed. Yes, in some way we just lead a unchangeable life day after day, but in this repeated of time-ceasing, we really can take a journey, for example, to love , to make something, to make our life worthy.

We only have one life, how to spend it meaningfully is in our hands. Don’t feel sorry about the past, cheap snapback hats, don’t feel unsafe about the future, just spend each day wisely for it composed our whole life. Only if we lived, what should us longing for?

Something bad in the university

Recently, something bad happened on me. It was about the student council election. As candidates,cheap nfl jerseys, two friends and I took part in the election. At that time, everything seemed okay. But from the moment that election result came out, everything went wrong.
One of the friends longed for the position of minister for a very long time.However, the minister was me. So she maybe could not accept the result and feel upset and a bit unfair. Firstly, she asked the last minister in an impolite way. She thought that she did more work than me in the past one year. So she should be the minister instead of me. This made me uncomfortable and down, but I stood.Secondly, she called the chairman that she refused to work with me or she would drop out the students' union. I was confused with what she said, did I bother her?
I didn't do anything that hurt her. In the past one year, I thought she is my friend. But if she wanted to insist on,cheap hats, let her go. What I need to do was to lead my section and finish my tasks.
As a sophomore, I can still remember the purpose of joining the students' union. I want to make changes, help students, improve my abilities and make friends instead of being the minister or the chairman. Don't forget what I want to do at the beginning.